For Women Who Love Them Still
Hope and a plan for women who love someone in addiction.
Christ-centered coaching to help you keep your faith, your identity, and your peace, no matter what your loved one chooses next.
Sound familiar?
Lying awake wondering where they are.
Saying the thing you swore you wouldn't say.
Smiling at church and telling no one.
And little by little, losing yourself.
You were never meant to carry this alone.
Here's the plan
Three Steps to Hope
Step 1:
Take the Free Quiz
You're not alone in asking why. Take the free 2-minute quiz to discover the longing that may be driving your loved one's choices, and receive a guide with gentle next steps for you.
Step 2:
Join Resilient
You don't have to figure this out by yourself. For twelve weeks, you'll learn, pray, and grow with a small group of Christian women through Christ-centered coaching.
Next cohort begins January 2027.
Step 3:
Keep Growing
When Resilient ends, you won't walk alone. Graduates continue in Hope Haven, a private community for practicing the tools, praying for one another, and holding onto hope.
Coming soon.
Imagine this,
Sleeping through the night again.
Having conversations that don't end in a fight.
Knowing what to say, what to do, and who you are in Christ,
no matter what your loved one chooses.
From helpless bystander to a hope-filled woman with a plan.
Hope Starts Here
Get to Know Your Guide.
I’m Melanie Ota, a coach certified in the Invitation to Change approach. For seventeen years, I loved my husband through addiction. For the first fifteen, I fought it my way. Then I met God, and what changed me wasn’t a strategy. It was surrender. I'm still practicing what I teach, and I'm a more resilient woman because of it. Now I help women like you find strength, clarity, and hope in the midst of the chaos. With a heart anchored in Christ, I walk alongside you with faith-filled encouragement and practical tools, so you can love without losing yourself.
Certified Invitation to Change coach · 17 years loving someone in addiction · Coached women in 5 states
Real Women. Real Hope.
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It was the perfect balance of proven, compassionate techniques and faith.
R. in Missouri (Wife)
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The Resilient course gave me hope for the future with my loved one.
S. in Nevada (Mother)
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Hope Releasers could not have come at a better time. It has impacted me in a positive way by giving me a whole different outlook on my loved one's perspective. Hope Releasers has empowered me by having that support knowing I'm not alone and I can stand taller and little bit stronger.
E. in Hawaii (Wife)
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Hey, Melanie! Guess what? My sister has been 90 days sober!!!! She is in a really good place. Not only did she stop drinking, she’s doing the hard and deep work of getting healthy (body, soul, and spirit). I can’t tell you how much your availability to talk to me and your prayers have meant! Love you!
J. in North Carolina (Sister)
Let’s Walk This Path Together
Ready to Take Your First Step?
You don’t have to keep carrying this alone. Whether you’re ready for a free guide, a course, a community, or just a conversation, I’m here to help you find your next step.
Free Quiz
Why Do They Keep Choosing It?
Take the 2-minute quiz to discover the longing that may be driving your loved one’s substance use, and get my free guide to help you see them with new eyes.
8 QUESTIONS • ABOUT 2 MINUTES • FREE